Decisions

There comes a part in your life when you have to make certain decisions about what important events you want to spend to which people.  I'm having a tough time making that decision at the moment, and it makes me sad.  I don't really know how to progress.  I could stay in my safe zone and be happy and let everything else go, or make an attempt to branch away, at the high risk that my safe zone won't be there when I need it to be.  Do I really want to make a mess of something that's already functioning properly?  I'm not an addict, I just like something that's predictable.